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Safe scrolling

Safe scrolling

Boredom can lead to many creative discoveries within ourselves and on the flip side, it can also lead to destructive patterns like stalking on exes on IG

Holistic LivingAmanda BlairApril 7, 2020exes, ig stalking, quaratine, dating, love, moving on, letting go, releasing, anxious attachment, why I can't move on, relationship coaching, anxious attachment and sex, attachment style Comments

But, maybe

But, maybe

Have you ever met someone and they are oh-so-cute, check off a lot of your boxes— preferred height, cool career, exciting hobbies, close to their family, like the obscure think you like too—, but there are also red flags?

HonestAmanda BlairFebruary 5, 2020but maybe, red flags, anxious attachment, anxious attachment and dating, attachment style, dating, relationships Comments

Toxic relationship ending

Toxic relationship ending

Q: I just recently got out of a toxic relationship and am wondering about the next steps for moving forward and on with my life.

HonestAmanda BlairDecember 18, 2019q+a, question, dating question, toxic relationship, moving forward, moving on, love, dating, relationships Comment

Text energy

Text energy

As my friend Kat would say, I have a WORD for you today. Ready?

Holistic LivingAmanda BlairDecember 17, 2019texting, dating, how much is he texting, waiting for a text, anxious attachment, attachment style Comments

Single and coaching

Single and coaching

I don’t get this question too often, but it does come up. “Why are you single if you’re a relationship coach?”

HonestAmanda BlairDecember 10, 2019single, relationship coaching, relationships, the work, dating, relationship to self Comment

Direct communication

Direct communication

When we are stuck in our attachment, we typically don’t communicate directly.

HonestAmanda BlairNovember 13, 2019direct communication, communication, communication in relationships, mixed messages, projecting, needs, know your needs, self love, self worth, relationships, dating, anxious attachment, attachment style, insecure attachments, earned secure Comment

Singles day

Singles day

Last week I was on Uniqlo’s website looking for heat teach turtlenecks, as one does when it below 40’s in NYC, and I saw something about a sale for Singles Day.

HonestAmanda BlairNovember 11, 2019single, singles day, 11.11, celebration, celebrate singleness, singledom, dating, love you, love coach, relationships, relationship coaching Comment

How to get over a breakup

How to get over a breakup

This week is breakup themed and what better way to round it out than by talking about how to get over a breakup?

Holistic LivingAmanda BlairOctober 31, 2019breakups, break up tips, how to get over a breakup, dating, relationships, anxious attachment Comment

Dating burnout

Dating burnout

One thing I hear a ton from my clients during our first session is that they are burnt out on dating or the “apps”. They feel like all they meet are duds and are tired of not meeting their person.

HonestAmanda BlairOctober 9, 2019dating burnout, dating is fun, dating, relationships, foundation, full sundae, relationship anxiety, new relationship, attachment style, relationship coach Comment

Fantasy vs reality

Fantasy vs reality

It’s really easy for us humans to get caught up living in a fantasy world.

HonestAmanda BlairOctober 2, 2019fantasy, reality, living in reality, authenticity, change, layers, foundation, anxious attachment, relationships, dating, love, self love, trust yourself Comment

I cracked the code on dating

I cracked the code on dating

The last round of dating I did before I met my boyfriend was the best dating experience I have ever had.

HonestAmanda BlairSeptember 17, 2019dating, cracked the code, dating is fun, how to make dating fun, online dating, date around, earned secure, attachment theory, attachment style, full sundae, solid foundation Comment

Phases

Phases

As I’ve stepped more fully into my role as a guide I’ve started to download a philosophy

Holistic LivingAmanda BlairSeptember 10, 2019phases, the work, deep spiritual digging, self love, awareness, self worth, relationships, dating Comment

Training wheels

Training wheels

When we first start holding our boundaries, it can be challenging.

HonestAmanda BlairSeptember 4, 2019anxious attachment, dating, boundaries, training wheels and boundaries, self worth, self love, relationship coaching, relationships, dating advice, dating and anxious attachmenet, attachment style, attachment theoryComment

Preoccupation exercise

Preoccupation exercise

When we have anxious attachment we have a tendency towards preoccupation.

Holistic LivingAmanda BlairAugust 8, 2019preoccupation, anxious attachment, attachment style, attachment theory, dating and anxious attachmenet, dating, relationships, inner child work, inner childComment

I feel confused

I feel confused

Have you ever met a potential partner and after hanging out felt confused?

HonestAmanda BlairJuly 8, 2019confused, dating, relationships, relationship anxiety, dating and anxious attachmenet, anxious attachment, attachment style, attachment theory Comment

Pushing boundaries

Pushing boundaries

If you’ve worked with me, you know I give out dating plans.

Holistic LivingAmanda BlairJune 27, 2019dating, boundaries, pushing boundaries, readjust, communicate, communicate your needs, anxious attachment, attachment theoryComment

Keep dating

Keep dating

How do you approach dating?

HonestAmanda BlairJune 5, 2019dating, dating with anxious attachment, anxious attachment, dating and anxious attachmenet, Attachment theory, attachment style, dating is fun, relationships, relationship coachComment

Staying in your power

Staying in your power

As we start to evolve, remove blocks and grow our self worth we will start to become more and more authentic.

HonestAmanda BlairMay 29, 2019power, self worth, authenticity, raising self worth, tests, dating, anxious, anxious attachment, dating and anxious attachmenetComment

IRL

IRL

How do you meet someone in real life?

HonestAmanda BlairMay 23, 2019meeting in real life, IRL, dating, dating in the wild, self worth, unblocking, attachment style, anxious attachment, trust, trusting the Universe, stay out of God's buisnessComment

Backsliding

Backsliding

When we start doing deep spiritual work, reprogramming old beliefs, stepping away from old patterns and creating new ones we feel forward motion

HonestAmanda BlairMay 17, 2019feeings, emotions, thoughts, sliding back, the work, deep spiritual work, strengthen your container, nervous system, dating, self love, self worth, relationship coach Comment