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Safe scrolling

Safe scrolling

Boredom can lead to many creative discoveries within ourselves and on the flip side, it can also lead to destructive patterns like stalking on exes on IG

Holistic LivingAmanda BlairApril 7, 2020exes, ig stalking, quaratine, dating, love, moving on, letting go, releasing, anxious attachment, why I can't move on, relationship coaching, anxious attachment and sex, attachment style Comments

But, maybe

But, maybe

Have you ever met someone and they are oh-so-cute, check off a lot of your boxes— preferred height, cool career, exciting hobbies, close to their family, like the obscure think you like too—, but there are also red flags?

HonestAmanda BlairFebruary 5, 2020but maybe, red flags, anxious attachment, anxious attachment and dating, attachment style, dating, relationships Comments

Text energy

Text energy

As my friend Kat would say, I have a WORD for you today. Ready?

Holistic LivingAmanda BlairDecember 17, 2019texting, dating, how much is he texting, waiting for a text, anxious attachment, attachment style Comments

Direct communication

Direct communication

When we are stuck in our attachment, we typically don’t communicate directly.

HonestAmanda BlairNovember 13, 2019direct communication, communication, communication in relationships, mixed messages, projecting, needs, know your needs, self love, self worth, relationships, dating, anxious attachment, attachment style, insecure attachments, earned secure Comment

How to get over a breakup

How to get over a breakup

This week is breakup themed and what better way to round it out than by talking about how to get over a breakup?

Holistic LivingAmanda BlairOctober 31, 2019breakups, break up tips, how to get over a breakup, dating, relationships, anxious attachment Comment

Fantasy vs reality

Fantasy vs reality

It’s really easy for us humans to get caught up living in a fantasy world.

HonestAmanda BlairOctober 2, 2019fantasy, reality, living in reality, authenticity, change, layers, foundation, anxious attachment, relationships, dating, love, self love, trust yourself Comment

Training wheels

Training wheels

When we first start holding our boundaries, it can be challenging.

HonestAmanda BlairSeptember 4, 2019anxious attachment, dating, boundaries, training wheels and boundaries, self worth, self love, relationship coaching, relationships, dating advice, dating and anxious attachmenet, attachment style, attachment theoryComment

Anxious-avoidant trap

Anxious-avoidant trap

Humans with anxious attachment will know this story well—

HonestAmanda BlairAugust 29, 2019anxious-avoidant trap, anxious attachment, avoidant attachment, attachment style, attachment theory, dating with anxious attachment, relationship coaching, real talk with ab, why am i anxious in relationships Comments

Preoccupation exercise

Preoccupation exercise

When we have anxious attachment we have a tendency towards preoccupation.

Holistic LivingAmanda BlairAugust 8, 2019preoccupation, anxious attachment, attachment style, attachment theory, dating and anxious attachmenet, dating, relationships, inner child work, inner childComment

Fantasy versus reality

Fantasy versus reality

When we haven’t fully stepped into our worth, we can get caught up in the fantasy of dating versus the reality.

Holistic LivingAmanda BlairAugust 2, 2019fantasy, reality, relationship coaching, relationships, real talk with ab, attachment style, anxious attachmentComment

I feel confused

I feel confused

Have you ever met a potential partner and after hanging out felt confused?

HonestAmanda BlairJuly 8, 2019confused, dating, relationships, relationship anxiety, dating and anxious attachmenet, anxious attachment, attachment style, attachment theory Comment

Pushing boundaries

Pushing boundaries

If you’ve worked with me, you know I give out dating plans.

Holistic LivingAmanda BlairJune 27, 2019dating, boundaries, pushing boundaries, readjust, communicate, communicate your needs, anxious attachment, attachment theoryComment

Right vs wrong

Right vs wrong

One question that I get asked a lot by clients is, “Did I do the right thing?”

Holistic LivingAmanda BlairJune 19, 2019right vs wrong, worry, anxious attachment, anxiety, tests, failing tests, mistakes, conditioning, layers, peel back, deep truth, deep spiritual work, self love, self work, self worthComment

Keep dating

Keep dating

How do you approach dating?

HonestAmanda BlairJune 5, 2019dating, dating with anxious attachment, anxious attachment, dating and anxious attachmenet, Attachment theory, attachment style, dating is fun, relationships, relationship coachComment

Staying in your power

Staying in your power

As we start to evolve, remove blocks and grow our self worth we will start to become more and more authentic.

HonestAmanda BlairMay 29, 2019power, self worth, authenticity, raising self worth, tests, dating, anxious, anxious attachment, dating and anxious attachmenetComment

IRL

IRL

How do you meet someone in real life?

HonestAmanda BlairMay 23, 2019meeting in real life, IRL, dating, dating in the wild, self worth, unblocking, attachment style, anxious attachment, trust, trusting the Universe, stay out of God's buisnessComment

Ghosting

Ghosting

So, you’ve been ghosted. Now what?

Holistic LivingAmanda BlairMay 14, 2019ghosting, self love, relationships, anxious attachment, dating and anxious attachmentComment

A Beautiful Community (Podcast)

A Beautiful Community (Podcast)

Hello beautiful humans!! I am so excited to share my latest podcast episode that is out today on A Single Serving Podcast!

Honest, Wild, Holistic LivingAmanda BlairMay 6, 2019podcast, single ladies, single season, how to enjoy being single, anxious attachment Comment

Pause

Pause

Are you meeting a emotionally unavailable guy after emotionally unavailable guy and wondering what the heck is going on?

HonestAmanda BlairApril 30, 2019pause, withdrawl, anxious attachment, dating and anxious attachment, dating break, brain chemistry, self worth, self loveComment

Social media stalking

Social media stalking

Be honest, do you stalk your exes Instagram?

Holistic LivingAmanda BlairApril 23, 2019social media, social media stalking, anxious attachment, dating and anxious attachment, relationships, relationship anxiety, real talk with ab, real talk Comment