Have you ever met someone and they are oh-so-cute, check off a lot of your boxes— preferred height, cool career, exciting hobbies, close to their family, like the obscure think you like too—, but there are also red flags?
Read MoreHow do you talk about a guy who recently spurned you with your girlfriends? Not so great I would guess. It's common, we all do it and egg each other on each time. "He was a dick!", you'll tell a friend to ease the sting of a recent heart break. "He is emotionally stunted and fuck him!", you'll console your friend who just got ghosted. Right? I've done it a thousand times. It seems harmless right? It isn't.
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