self worth — Blog — Amanda Blair

Now what?

Last week, on my Instagram I posted about the importance of getting tested for HIV/STDs.

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Direct communication

When we are stuck in our attachment, we typically don’t communicate directly.

HonestAmanda BlairNovember 13, 2019direct communication, communication, communication in relationships, mixed messages, projecting, needs, know your needs, self love, self worth, relationships, dating, anxious attachment, attachment style, insecure attachments, earned secure Comment

Phases

As I’ve stepped more fully into my role as a guide I’ve started to download a philosophy

Holistic LivingAmanda BlairSeptember 10, 2019phases, the work, deep spiritual digging, self love, awareness, self worth, relationships, dating Comment

Training wheels

When we first start holding our boundaries, it can be challenging.

HonestAmanda BlairSeptember 4, 2019anxious attachment, dating, boundaries, training wheels and boundaries, self worth, self love, relationship coaching, relationships, dating advice, dating and anxious attachmenet, attachment style, attachment theoryComment

Integration

When diving into doing deep spiritual work in todays day world I think there is a really important thing that gets missed— taking time to integrate.

Photo: Dylan

Holistic LivingAmanda BlairJuly 25, 2019integration, spiritual work, deep spiritual work, self love, self work, self worthComment

Not your average alcoholic

I recently had the pleasure of being on Lauren Hawk’s podcast To Be Human (episode is out on Wednesday).

HonestAmanda BlairJuly 16, 2019alcoholism, alcoholic, addict, 12 step, not your average alcoholic, probelm, problem, healing, self, self worth, relationships Comments

Right vs wrong

One question that I get asked a lot by clients is, “Did I do the right thing?”

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Staying in your power

As we start to evolve, remove blocks and grow our self worth we will start to become more and more authentic.

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IRL

How do you meet someone in real life?

HonestAmanda BlairMay 23, 2019meeting in real life, IRL, dating, dating in the wild, self worth, unblocking, attachment style, anxious attachment, trust, trusting the Universe, stay out of God's buisnessComment

Backsliding

When we start doing deep spiritual work, reprogramming old beliefs, stepping away from old patterns and creating new ones we feel forward motion

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Intrigue

Do you walk into a room and try to find the most attractive person there to catch their eye and see if they are vibing with you?

Holistic LivingAmanda BlairMay 8, 2019intriguing, mask, self worth, low self, low self worth, high self worth, raising self worth, seeking validation behaviorComment

Flattering or not

Women are taught to appear attractive through the lens of men.

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Pause

Are you meeting a emotionally unavailable guy after emotionally unavailable guy and wondering what the heck is going on?

HonestAmanda BlairApril 30, 2019pause, withdrawl, anxious attachment, dating and anxious attachment, dating break, brain chemistry, self worth, self loveComment

Anxious attachment and dating

Okay, so you have an anxious attachment style. Now what?

We are the rule

How many times have we heard a potential partner tell us what they want (or don’t want) but because we wanted another thing from them we thought we could change them and they would eventually want the same?

Holistic LivingAmanda BlairFebruary 11, 2019Rule, exception, dating, self worth, DPS, disney princess syndrome, love, dating advice, real talk, real talk with ab, travel, vietnamComment

New love for your old love

Break ups are hard. Obviously! We all process them differently but, I think we can agree breakups are sad.

HonestAmanda BlairJanuary 15, 2019old love, new love, exes, moving on, boyfriend, girlfriend, dating, jealousy, not good enough, self worth, low self worth, high self worth, secret Comment

Testing, testing 1,2,3

How do we know when we are faced with a romantic test? Well, I just experienced one so, I have fresh perspective to share.

Holistic LivingAmanda BlairJanuary 8, 2019tests, romantic tests, dating, self worth, self work, tobemagnetic, how to know a test, walking away, trauma bonding, low self worth, changeComment

A guide to enjoying online dating

I’ve been single again for about 7 months. And I’m loving it.

HonestAmanda BlairDecember 5, 2018online dating, dating protocol, dating is fun, boundaries, self love, self worth, real talk, real talk with ab, love coach, lists, calling in my list, partners, test, testsComment

Dating and beauty

When I think of going out on a date, I automatically think of all that entails to get ready for one.

Wild, Holistic LivingAmanda BlairNovember 27, 2018no makeup, makeupfree, make up free dating, confidence, love your skin, self love, self worth, datingComment

Single and the Holidays

Being single around the Holidays tends to get a bad rap. Movies depict this scenario as being sad and the single person (it’s usually a woman) longing for love. And the trope has stuck. However, it doesn’t have to be that way. Being single isn’t a curse or something we are afflicted with or a burden. Being single is a time of self discovery, exploration and being selfish.

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