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Trading sex for intimacy

Trading sex for intimacy

Humans with anxious attachment have a catch-22 when it comes to sex.

HonestAmanda BlairJanuary 9, 2020trading sex for intimacy, sex, intimacy, false intimacy, anxious attachment and sex, anxiety, attachment theory, attachment style, avoidant attachment, arambol, anxious-avoidant trap, dating and anxious attachmenet Comments

I cracked the code on dating

I cracked the code on dating

The last round of dating I did before I met my boyfriend was the best dating experience I have ever had.

HonestAmanda BlairSeptember 17, 2019dating, cracked the code, dating is fun, how to make dating fun, online dating, date around, earned secure, attachment theory, attachment style, full sundae, solid foundation Comment

Training wheels

Training wheels

When we first start holding our boundaries, it can be challenging.

HonestAmanda BlairSeptember 4, 2019anxious attachment, dating, boundaries, training wheels and boundaries, self worth, self love, relationship coaching, relationships, dating advice, dating and anxious attachmenet, attachment style, attachment theoryComment

Anxious-avoidant trap

Anxious-avoidant trap

Humans with anxious attachment will know this story well—

HonestAmanda BlairAugust 29, 2019anxious-avoidant trap, anxious attachment, avoidant attachment, attachment style, attachment theory, dating with anxious attachment, relationship coaching, real talk with ab, why am i anxious in relationships Comments

Preoccupation exercise

Preoccupation exercise

When we have anxious attachment we have a tendency towards preoccupation.

Holistic LivingAmanda BlairAugust 8, 2019preoccupation, anxious attachment, attachment style, attachment theory, dating and anxious attachmenet, dating, relationships, inner child work, inner childComment

Emotionally unavailable humans

Emotionally unavailable humans

Hello humans! I had the distinct pleasure of being a guest speaker on my friend Kat Harris new course on dating.

Holistic LivingAmanda BlairJuly 9, 2019relationship coaching, interdependence, responsibility, radical vulnerability, raising self worth, feminine energy, attachment theory Comment

I feel confused

I feel confused

Have you ever met a potential partner and after hanging out felt confused?

HonestAmanda BlairJuly 8, 2019confused, dating, relationships, relationship anxiety, dating and anxious attachmenet, anxious attachment, attachment style, attachment theory Comment

Pushing boundaries

Pushing boundaries

If you’ve worked with me, you know I give out dating plans.

Holistic LivingAmanda BlairJune 27, 2019dating, boundaries, pushing boundaries, readjust, communicate, communicate your needs, anxious attachment, attachment theoryComment