Blog — Amanda Blair

Flattering or not

Women are taught to appear attractive through the lens of men.

Holistic LivingAmanda BlairMay 3, 2019clothes, validation, self worth Comment

Pause

Are you meeting a emotionally unavailable guy after emotionally unavailable guy and wondering what the heck is going on?

HonestAmanda BlairApril 30, 2019pause, withdrawl, anxious attachment, dating and anxious attachment, dating break, brain chemistry, self worth, self loveComment

Social media stalking

Be honest, do you stalk your exes Instagram?

Holistic LivingAmanda BlairApril 23, 2019social media, social media stalking, anxious attachment, dating and anxious attachment, relationships, relationship anxiety, real talk with ab, real talk Comment

Expanded podcast

Today is a very special day because it’s the day my Expanded Podcast with Lacy Phillips is live!!!

Wild, Honest, Holistic LivingAmanda BlairApril 19, 2019expanded podcast, to be magnetic, relationship coachComment

Soothe thy self

in my practice I get asked a lot how to deal with getting activated from my clients with anxious attachments.

Holistic LivingAmanda BlairApril 17, 2019soothing, self soothing, anxious attachment, dating and anxious attachment, attachment activated, Attachment theory, attachment style Comment

Casual sex

Casual sex— do or don’t?

HonestAmanda BlairApril 12, 2019casual sex, casual sex and dating, relationships, anxious attachment, dating and anxious attachment, love coach, real talk, real talk with abComment

Steering the ship

Who steers the ship at the beginning of the relationship? You or do you defer to your partner?

HonestAmanda BlairApril 10, 2019steering the ship, relationships, anxious attachment, dating and anxious attachment, dating, love, relationship anxietyComment

Lessons learned from a rock bottom

I’m interrupting normal programing of romantic relationship talk for self relationship talk instead.

HonestAmanda BlairApril 2, 2019apartments, nyc real estate, brooklyn, rock bottom, to be magnetic, living alone, clarity, head burying, lessons, life lessons, The UniverseComment

Self abandonment

Self abandonment— don’t do it.

HonestAmanda BlairMarch 20, 2019abandonment, self abandonment, coaching, love coach, relationship coach, anxious attachment, dating and anxious attachment, attachment style, Attachment theory, self love, self care, love, dating, real talk, real talk with abComment

Interdependence vs Independence

We are taught to be independent, strong and resilient.

HonestAmanda BlairMarch 13, 2019interdependence, independence, codependency, self love, dating, interdependent relationships, nature, real talk, love, anxious attachment, dating and anxious attachment, Attachment theory, attachment style, avoidant attachment Comment

Anxious attachment and dating

Okay, so you have an anxious attachment style. Now what?

Meta meditation

May you be happy. May be you safe. May you be strong. May you live with ease.

Holistic LivingAmanda BlairMarch 1, 2019meta meditation, meta, meditation, ease, happy, safe, strong, anxious attachment, dop, serotonin, brain chemistry, endorphins Comment

Anxious attachment

Do you find yourself falling in love quickly?

Holistic LivingAmanda BlairFebruary 27, 2019Attachment theory, anxious attachment, needy, why am i needy, why am i anxious in relationships, relationship anxiety, brain chemistry, dopamine, attached, the attachment effect Comments

Texting etiquette

Alright, I’m going break down texting and dating once for all. It was always confusing to me before I figured out my philosophy on it but once I did, it made the whole texting debacle a lot easier.

HonestAmanda BlairFebruary 20, 2019texting, texting anxiety, anxiety, anxious, new relationship, do you text a guy first, feminine energy, masculine energy Comment

No date for Valentines, no problem!

Hey human! Are you single on Valentines? Great. Me too!

Holistic LivingAmanda BlairFebruary 13, 2019valentine's day, single ladies, sexy night in for one, sexy night in, romance, romance yourselfComment

We are the rule

How many times have we heard a potential partner tell us what they want (or don’t want) but because we wanted another thing from them we thought we could change them and they would eventually want the same?